This needs to be said

Okay: Having a favorite member of a band and it being the lead singer.
Not Okay: Disrespecting the other band members.

Okay: Knowing only one song by the band
Not Okay: Claiming you are their “biggest fan”.

Okay: Expressing that you think a band member is attractive.
Not Okay: OMGZZZ LEMME HAVE YOUR BABIEZZZ. FUCKKK MEE BABYY.

Okay: Not particularly liking a band member’s love interest.
Not Okay: Sending him/her hate messages.

Okay: Not liking a band.
Not Okay: Harassing the people who do like the band for no reason.

Last thing: If someone’s favorite song happens to be one of the more popular songs by the band, that does not make them any less of a fan. King For A Day, Weightless, Second & Sebring…(for example) are all incredible songs. If they weren’t, then they wouldn’t be singles. Don’t say that someone isn’t a “real fan” because they like one of those songs the best.

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